Feminine vs Feminist

A bit provocative entry, but truly from my heart.


Feminist vs feminism? These things really bothered me these last few months.

I was born as a feminist person. I want to lead, I want to control everything. And I always think I can do anything that man can do. I fought and proved that I better than them but I never happy with my achievement. Something is missing.

When I started exploring few blogs last Oct; Sexy lingerie, Surrendered Wife, Marriage Bliss, DD blogs ,Fashionable Housewife and Retro Housewife , I slowly changed to become more feminine. As a feminist person before, I know and realized what had affected my marriage and life before this. From my observation in xxx forum, most of the woman suffered in their relationship and marriage because of their feminist thing. They don’t really respect/trust their partner and try to be bossy/queen control. I try to give an opinion, we as a woman should become more feminine to our husband. Actually there were few things I said and sadly, they don’t accept my opinion. Ok, I understand not everyone can adapt/understand/accept the concept HOH relationship. So I stop form giving any opinion because they attack me back and labeled me as a slut ( for being obedient wife).

King said, I can’t join them anymore because I’m not one of them now. My feminist day is over. He likes and more respects to me now. I still can do anything I want as long as I remember my place as a wife and he as HOH. Being feminine made me feel more submissive to him.

What I’m tried to say here, being feminist 24/7 is not work for me and could slowly destroyed my marriage. There are times when I should be feminist and feminine. As a stay at home wife, I love the role as feminine wife. But if I’m in any organization or work, I prefer to be more feminist. Right now, I just enjoyed being feminine.